I wanna be that person who just radiates nice energy like, I wanna be that person who you’ve never spoken to before but you think of me as a friend already. I wanna be that person you feel that you can come to for advice whenever, or someone who makes you feel better by just talking to you. I’m gonna try really hard to be that person.
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if I lie here
if I just lay here
I’ll probably fall asleep so leave me alone
nothing like coming to the sudden realization that my childhood was stolen from me by people who should’ve protected me, people who pretended to have my best interest in mind. Shitty dealizations were beaten into my head and i was belittled for being a child, I want to forget them, I want them out of my head I want to never see or speak of them again. I was told no one could ever love me aside from those who were tied to me by blood, but I prove them wrong every day, so fuck off
Let’s clear something up.
Pansexual is not the same as bisexual. Why, you might ask?
Well, I could go into the actual meaning behind the prefixes while still addressing the expanded meaning of bisexual to include more than just two genders and how the literal meanings behind each orientation are similar.
But the truth of the matter lies in this:
Bisexuality and pansexuality are different because that’s how people choose to label themselves. Most don’t interchange the terms, they identify as one or the other.
While it is nice to know what and who you are, to have a label to put on yourself, labels are not important. But don’t tell someone they’ve labeled themselves wrong or call them something else when they obviously aren’t comfortable with that label.
If someone is comfortable with being labeled as bisexual, they will say that they are bisexual. If someone is comfortable with being labeled as pansexual, they will say that they are pansexual.
Let people label themselves as they are comfortable with and just let them be who they are.
If you don’t agree with how someone chooses to label themselves, and that’s fine because we all may have different definitions, but that is an issue you need to take up with yourself and not project onto others.
anyone else having a…hmm. what’s the word? Really Shit Time?
“If flowers can grow
through blankets of melting snow,
there is hope for me.”—
Tyler Knott Gregson, Haiku on Love
(via adrenaline)
dare i say that stuffed animals are one of the single greatest inventions of all time and im thankful every day for the fact that someone thought to make animals but in huggable plush form…..saved me from a lot of bad nights and nightmares as a kid, i love you stuffed animals
i just wanna thank stuffed animals for existing, thank you for being stuffed pals for all these years
Casting director: we need the voice of pikachu to be a recognized name. It’s going to be tough to find a respectable actor wh
Ryan Reynolds: ME
Ryan Reynolds: I’LL DO IT
Ryan Reynolds: PIKA PIKA MOTHER FUCKER
me: you’ve already used this exact turn of phrase two paragraphs ago, that’s too repetitive
me, an intellectual: if I use it three more times it becomes a motif
Growing up my parents taught me that if you’re too sick to [insert responsibility here] then you’re too sick to [insert something that makes you happy here].
It took me a really long time to unlearn this. When I would get sick or have a “bad day” I would deprive myself of anything that made me happy. Watching movies, eating something I enjoyed, going for a walk, playing video games or just browsing online looking at funny cat videos. I wouldn’t let myself do these things because I was always told that if I’m too sick to go to work, or do homework, or go to school then I must be too sick to play Mortal Kombat or watch Unsolved Mysteries lol.
Whenever I wouldn’t feel good, which I later learned as an adult was due to sleep deprivation caused by my ADHD and depression (and of course the depression itself would cause me to feel like shit), my parents would tell me “if you’re not throwing up, then you’re not sick.” And when I would stay home from school (or even work in my later teen years) my parents would make sure that I didn’t have any “fun.” No TV, no movies, no games, no going outside, no arts and crafts, no books, no nothing. Just lay in bed and feel miserable.
I’m happy to say that I no longer do this to myself. Now when I’m having a bad day or I’m sick (cold, flu or whatever) I allow myself to do the things (within reason lol) that I actually love doing. If I’m not too sick to step outside for a few minutes then I’ll go for a walk. I’ll watch my favorite movies and if it’s a bad day or a cold (something that doesn’t hinder my appetite too much) I’ll eat my favorite foods. I don’t guilt trip myself anymore for having a “sick day.”
Just because you’re sick (whether physically, emotionally or mentally) doesn’t mean that you can’t do things you enjoy. You’re not any less sick because you watch TV. You’re not any less sick because you’re playing video games.
Actually you SHOULD be doing these things when you’re not feeling good because they make you feel better. The better you feel, the faster your heal.
I grew up with the same attitude about being sick and let me tell you, it seriously fucked me up when I became disabled / chronically ill. It’s taken me FOREVER to stop feeling guilty about doing enjoyable stuff.
Extremely important.
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