pointlesslypointing:

speeedylesbian:

Here’s an unpopular opinion that shouldn’t be unpopular: Not wanting sex is a reasonable boundary to set for literally any reason. Be it your trauma, your mental health, your sexuality, or any other factor. Your partners should respect that and they should respect you. This shouldn’t be a debate.

A follow up unpopular opinion that shouldn’t be unpopular: If sex is a big deal for you, and your partner doesn’t want it; it’s not wrong of you to leave them. It’s better that you get what you want and they get what they want, rather than you pressuring them into it or becoming bitter about it.